Hi, I'm leaving a comment, so you hopefully won't feel so neglected.
I'm sorry that things are not working out well for you at the moment.
If it makes you feel any better, "Mortality for Skeptics" is still one of my favorite things I've stumbled onto on the net (and how I found kisrael.com in the first place).
That Forbes Slideshow was terribly annoying. I had misse dthe end of several slides when I discovered you could control the thing. But really, why make the user jump through hoops when you could have simple Prev and Next buttons. This is an <i>interactive</i> medium, right? So why go to the extra work of removing that interactivity and writing a passive slideshow with a clunky interface? The content was quite amusing though.
I totally agree with the "self-fulfilling prophecy" aspect of dissecting a marriage. You can almost always find problems if that's what you're looking for. Well, chin up, Kirk, and just think of all the kisrael.com groupies who are waiting to jump you when the divorce is final.
That forbes page crashes my browser with no error every time I try to visit it. Wacky.
I think there's something else going on that you don't know about.
You don't think she's seeing someone else do you? Having an affair perhaps?
Kirk, I must agree with Winslow. I admit to not giving the complete picture of my woes and unhappieness when I ended my relationship this summer. It is only now, that I am able to tell the whole story to him. Kirk, just know that sometimes, it is easier for some people to leave behind the person they love because they are unable to accept thier own faults.
It's obviously not impossible but I doubt Mo's having an affair. I've never had evidence of either of us lying to the other, and I've asked directly.
I think there's a much better chance that it's something we haven't quite uncovered, maybe vaguely gruesome, maybe something negative about me that she doesn't think I want to hear, but still.
my 2 cents: I don't think it's an affair. I really, really really don't.
and yes, I think too much speculation on "signs" without clear communication does more harm than good.
Relationship = hamster. If you dissect it to see if there are any anomalies... you'll know for sure, but you won't have a hamster anymore.
Awww, hamster!
Also, I usually write hampster, because if there's no p, then chances are it's just a dust bunny.
Doesn't matter what she's up to...the most unfair thing you can do is think it has something to do with you. Let craziness stay with its owner.